Guys Dating Tips For Korean Women

Guys Dating Tips For Starting a Conversation With A Korean Woman

Guys dating tips for how to meet and start that initial conversation with a Korean woman.

Introduced to a Korean woman you’d like to get to know more?

These tips will make starting a conversation with a her easier and fun!

Give yourself the best chances by:

  • talking in Korean or easy-English
  • coming across as nervous
  • being playful and casual

Rest easy knowing that these guy dating tips will make her feel comfortable and curious…

Guys Dating Tips #1 – Communicate

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If you are fluent or conversational enough in Korean then you can talk to her easily and stress-free (good on you by the way!) ๐Ÿ˜‰

If not then I recommend talking to her in English.

Most Korean women speak English but they’re too shy to. If you speak slowly and limit your English to ‘basic’ then she’ll interact with you.

Note: Some Korean women are fluent in English but won’t let you know. If you try to speak in Korean then she’ll reciprocate and talk to you in English.

In any case I recommend using some body language to express yourself (think ‘Italian man’ :P)

Guys Dating Tips # 2 – Match And Mirror

Did you meet her randomly or are your friends ‘introducing’ you both?

She’ll be nervous. In Korea it’s good to show humility and since you’re a ๋ชฐ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ (‘Mollen Saram’ or ‘unknown person’) she’ll also be distant at first.

The best way to make her feel comfortable is to look and feel nervous yourself (as opposed to confident and assertive as you would in the West.) That way you are both feeling the same way and can relate.

After the first five minutes of conversation you can socialize as if you were talking to a Westerner. Of course if you think she’s nervous then act nervous again as well.

Granted if you’re already nervous then don’t worry – in this case is good!

Understand how she’s feeling and you’ll better your chances of making something happen between the two of you! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Guys Dating Tips # 3 – Appreciate

The Social Context

Westerners underestimate the importance of the social context. If you’re just meeting her randomly at a bookstore or coffee shop then I recommend having socially acceptable reasons for starting a conversation.

For example, in the subway I’d ask for directions rather than asking for her phone number.

In the coffee shop I’d ask her what coffee she got rather than if I can sit next to her.

Give her the social plausibility to interact with you. This is very important because Koreans in general won’t act out of what the social context allows them to.

In the West we’re rewarded for being rebellious by pushing the social boundaries. In Korea the people would frown on you.

Quite a different culture. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Final Thoughts On These Practical Tips

Dating a Korean woman will flip your world upside down! Instead of speaking witty English you want to speak basic English.

Instead of coming across as confident, you want to come across as humble.

Rather than showing your self-confidence by breaking social rules, you want to work within them.

If you’re up for the challenge then by all means – Have the relationship you want with your ideal Korean woman!