Dating Tips For Women Who Want a Korean Guy!

Dating Tips For Women Into Korean Men!

Discover practical dating tips for women into Korean guys that will

improve your chances for dating a Korean man.

Some women dating tips are simple to understand. Other tips are not so.

When it comes to dating a Korean man there’s not just a gender difference but also a cultural one as well.

If you are into dating a Korean man then I recommend being aware of the changes you must make.

If you’re willing to change for that ideal relationship then you’re in good hands!

Some of these will seem controversial but if you’re looking for what works then you’ll be happy!

Dating Tips For Women #1

Change Hang Out Spots

If you want to meet a Korean man then it’s time to change things.

The first (and easiest) thing to change is where you’re hanging out with your friends.  For example instead of going to the all-girls salad bar for lunch I recommend going to a Korean restaurant where guys hang out.

Start going to coffee shops that guys go to with friends. Grab a beer with your friends at a bar or hof (Korean-style bar.)  Surround yourself with Korean men more frequently and you’ll more likely find a guy who’ll like you and that you’ll like.

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Dating Tips For Women #2

Get in Shape

A typical Korean guy’s standards for physical attractiveness are high.  That makes sense because Korean women work hard at looking good.

I recommend doing the same.  If you’re serious about landing a cute Korean guy then you’d better hone your #1 weapon – your looks and body.

Too many Western women come to Korea, get intimidated by the competition and give up.  It’s time to make a stand, don’t you think?

You too want a cute Korean guy and you’ll do what it takes to get one, right?  So I recommend going to the gym regularly and be patient as your body looks better.”  

How will I know I’m in good shape?”  

You’ll know when Korean guys start checking you out more regularly.  Or when you notice your guy friends start either complementing you or giving you more of their time.

Who knows?  You might just meet a dream guy at the gym! 😉

Dating Tips For Women #3

Be Feminine


When I recommend being feminine I’m not talking about being subservient.

Too many Western women are afraid of femininity it seems and don’t understand the power and beauty of it.

To be feminine in my opinion means to accept and be comfortable with letting the man lead.

Let the Korean man make the decisions and accept that you can only ‘passively’ influence him.

The main complaint I get from my Korean guy friends is that they are intimidated by Western women!  It’s not that they don’t think they’re attractive but it’s that Western women scare them!

It’s not even with the physical leading.  I’m also talking about the conversation.  Let him guide the conversation and just wait for his guidance.  Allow yourself to also show your femininity with your demeanor.

Carry a more humble ‘little girl’ air so that he can feel like he knows his role – as the caring and protecting male.

Dating Tips For Women # 4

Study Korean

Need I say it? 😉

If you want to make it as easy and comfortable for your ideal Korean man then I recommend learning the language.

Take the classes and make it a priority to learn Korean and hang out with Korean women.  They just might introduce you to some cute Korean guys!  You can read more about them by clicking on the link.

The easier you make things for him the sooner you’ll be with an amazing Korean guy!

Dating Tips For Women #5

Give Him an Excuse To Talk To You

This is the ultimate in skill.  How can you have him talk to you without coming across as ‘easy’?  At the same time how can you make him feel like ‘he talked to you’ so that he can have his ego?

I recommend giving him an excuse to interact with you that’s socially acceptable.  For example in the coffee shop you can get a table next to him (with your Korean book) and ask him what a certain word means.

He’ll more than likely help you.  Make sure you thank him and if he’s interested and (brave) enough he’ll continue the interaction.

You’ll do him a favor by making him feel like a rescuer and boosting his ego.  You’ve also displayed your ‘feminine’ traits and have given him an excuse to talk to him.

More Dating Tips For Women!

If you want to understand men in general I recommend checking out Relationship expert Kara Oh’s “Men Made Easy!“.

You’ll discover the fundamentals of how to please men anywhere.  I agree with a lot of her points and wish that more women were the same way.

There’s another source of inspiration – a Korean woman.

Look at how she dresses, what her body type is like and most importantly how she carries herself.

I know you don’t want to feel like you’re betraying yourself for a Korean guy.  It’s not about betraying as it is about flexibly camouflaging yourself to match what he wants.

If you land a great Korean guy he’ll also start changing himself to match what you like in a guy.  In any case have fun as you find your ideal Korean man!  Is your ideal Korean man older?  Discover 3 tips for dating older men here!